Proving my point of the previous comment: I meant to also comment on the little annoyances. Good reason for adding to the comment count though so here goes:
I find that having lots of little things go against you can even get you more down than one big thing. Part of this I think is that it feels like there is a pattern to your life of things going wrong -- it is so easy sometimes to forget the good things when bad things are right on top of you. Another aspect to it is the fact that since they are 'just little things' there is an expectation that you shouldn't let it get to you or complain about it. Sometimes actually being allowed to complain to someone else and having them acknowledge that things are bad for you helps you find the strength and courage to go on. If this is the case for you, please take this as me seeing your problems and hoping you can preserver and get through them to the other side!
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branchandroot
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Date: 2012-10-07 05:47 pm (UTC)I find that having lots of little things go against you can even get you more down than one big thing. Part of this I think is that it feels like there is a pattern to your life of things going wrong -- it is so easy sometimes to forget the good things when bad things are right on top of you. Another aspect to it is the fact that since they are 'just little things' there is an expectation that you shouldn't let it get to you or complain about it. Sometimes actually being allowed to complain to someone else and having them acknowledge that things are bad for you helps you find the strength and courage to go on. If this is the case for you, please take this as me seeing your problems and hoping you can preserver and get through them to the other side!