Melian must have loved Elu very much - it's hard to imagine a Maia with an Elf - which, I agree with you, makes it that much worse that she just abandoned Doriath to its fate. A lot of people died because of her decision; but then a Maia may not see death the same way we do... :-/

Yes, despite being a class A jerk, Saeros is actually quite refreshing. I think all who read 'Children of Húrin' felt like saying a few choice words to Túrin! *g*